An Invitation to Transform
Pleasure Liberation: Relationships is a 16-week small group (maximum 6 participants) experience for those exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, and other expansive forms of love and longing to live those truths with confidence, care, and embodiment.
Together, we’ll explore how to communicate with clarity, create liberatory agreements, embody secure connection, and build relationships that reflect your deepest values. Through guided education, embodied practice, and group dialogue, you’ll be supported in crafting relationships rooted in consent, pleasure, and mutual empowerment.
This is an invitation to create your own liberated way of relating, one that honors your fullest self and opens the door to greater intimacy, fulfillment, and possibility. Receive the education, community, and support you need to build relationships that are secure, liberatory, and uniquely your own.
Over 16 weeks, you will:
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Turn confusion into clarity by unlearning the relational scripts that never fit you and replacing them with values-driven, liberatory frameworks for love and connection.
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Transform jealousy and fear into self-understanding, emotional fluency, and the ability to hold both vulnerability and compersion with compassion.
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Reconnect with your erotic self after years of disconnection, performance, or pressure, building a relationship with your desire that feels grounded, joyful, and embodied.
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Step into your boundaries and needs without guilt, shame, or people-pleasing, learning how to say no with love and yes with your whole body.
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Practice secure, expansive love by tending to your nervous system, learning the art of rupture and repair, and cultivating relationships where freedom and care coexist.
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Craft your own relationship ecosystem, whether you’re solo, partnered, polyamorous, or undefined, through relational mapping, imagination, and collaborative design.
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Expand at your own pace in a high-support space where your pleasure, power, and process are honored. This isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about returning to yourself.
This group changed how I love. I came in overwhelmed by jealousy and confusion, and left with so much clarity, confidence, and self-trust. Dr. Nicole’s guidance is profound and gentle. For the first time, I feel like I’m building relationships that are actually mine. Deeply grateful.
Quinn M.
I didn’t realize how disconnected I was from my own pleasure until this group helped me return to it. Every session gave me tools, insight, and community. I’ve learned how to ask for what I want without shame and that has transformed everything. It was truly life-giving.
Ellis V.
This was more than a course, it was a complete shift in how I relate. I no longer feel stuck in old patterns. With Dr. Nicole’s support and the magic of this group, I’ve started living my relationships with intention, joy, pleasure, and freedom. I can't thank her and the group enough.
Marin S.
This Group is for you if
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You’re exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, or other expansive ways of loving and want to feel more grounded, confident, and connected in your path.
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You long to relate from a place of desire rather than obligation, and want to craft relationships that reflect your evolving values, not societal scripts.
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You’ve struggled with jealousy, insecurity, or fear of abandonment, and want to build more emotional resilience, clarity, and care in your connections.
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You’re tired of people-pleasing, over-functioning, or collapsing yourself in relationship and ready to center your needs, boundaries, and truth without shame.
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You want to feel more alive in your body and your sex life, reconnecting with pleasure, play, and erotic possibility.
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You’re craving a small, supportive community of like-minded people who are walking the path of expansive love and who will celebrate your growth, witness your breakthroughs, and remind you that you’re not alone.
What's Included
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A structured yet fluid space for guided teaching, group discussion, embodiment practices, and integration with Dr. Nicole. Each session is intentionally crafted to balance content and connection, giving you both tools and space to process in community.
16 Weekly 2-Hour Group Sessions
You’ll receive a neuroscience-backed curriculum paired with weekly journal prompts to deepen your learning between sessions, all designed to expand your erotic awareness and foster lasting integration.
A Curriculum Rooted in Neuroscience
Receive two private sessions with Dr. Nicole, one at the start of the program to set your intentions and personalize your relational growth, and one at the end to integrate your breakthroughs and map your next steps. These one-on-one sessions ensure your journey is deeply tailored to you.
Individual Sessions with Dr. Nicole
This group is intentionally small and intimate so that you can be seen, heard, and supported every step of the way. You’re not just one of many, you’re part of a transformative ecosystem.
A Support Container (6 participants max)
Learn tools for nervous system regulation, boundary-setting, consent, conflict repair, and more, so that you can embody your values, even in moments of intensity or vulnerability.
Somatic + Relational Practices
You’ll be invited to connect with a peer in the group for weekly support and shared integration, a structure that supports co-regulation, accountability, and intimacy in your learning
Peer Support and Community
Timing and Process
Application Window:
To join Pleasure Liberation: Sexuality, begin by scheduling a discovery call with Dr. Nicole. This one-on-one conversation is an opportunity to connect more deeply, explore your desires for this journey, and ask any questions you may have about the group experience. During the call, Dr. Nicole will take time to understand your unique intentions, goals, and the kind of support you’re seeking, ensuring that this space feels like an aligned, nourishing fit for your growth and liberation.
Sign up for a Discovery Call Now to Secure Your Spot: Book My Call
Only 6 participants each year will be chosen to join this intimate circle.
The last day to apply for consideration of enrollment is August 5th.
Session Dates:
The group begins the last week of August and runs for 16 consecutive weeks. The group meets once per week with the same cohort for all 16 weeks, and participants choose one of the three cohort times at registration. This consistent weekly rhythm is part of what allows trust, depth, and real relational work to unfold.
Cohort 1: Every Wednesday, 4:30-6:30pm CST
Cohort 2: Every Friday, 11-1pm CST
Cohort 3: Every Saturday, 1-3pm CST
Session Format:
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Two private sessions with Dr. Nicole, one at the start to set your intentions and one at the end to integrate your growth
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Dedicated individual sessions to explore personal patterns, tender edges, and specific relational or erotic themes that may not feel right to process in group, allowing for deeper personalization, focused support, and targeted integration of what is unfolding for you in the container.
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Weekly 2-hour live sessions on Zoom
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32 hours of live, guided facilitation with Dr. Nicole, where we explore the psychology of desire, arousal, shame, attachment, boundaries, nervous system regulation, and erotic self trust, while actively practicing new ways of relating to your body and your pleasure in real time.
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Guided education, somatic + relational practices, group dialogue, and integration support
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Each session blends research based frameworks from sex therapy, attachment theory, trauma informed somatic work, and relational psychology with grounded practices that help you actually integrate what you are learning into your nervous system and daily life.
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1-hour peer support and shared reflection
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In addition to large group learning, you will have space to reflect, witness, and be witnessed, which is often where the deepest shifts occur. Transformation does not happen in isolation. It happens in relationship.
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Group Size:
This is a high-support space capped at 6 participants to ensure intimacy, safety, and personalized support with Dr. Nicole.
Discovery Call:
Begin with a discovery call to ask your questions, share what you are navigating, and explore whether working together feels aligned. This conversation is a space for connection and clarity, where you can get a felt sense of the work and Dr. Nicole can offer professional guidance and a recommendation about what kind of support may best serve you, whether that is group work, individual sessions, or another supportive pathway.
You can book your Discovery Call Here: Book My Call
Investment:
This program reflects a deep and supported journey and includes live facilitation, weekly curriculum, and ongoing integration tools. If you were to receive this level of depth, continuity, and individualized guidance in private sessions, the investment would be approximately $12,000 over the same time period. This group container offers access to that same clinical expertise, along with the added power of relational and community based healing, for an investment of $5,500.
This is a rare opportunity to work with Dr. Nicole in an ongoing, immersive group format that allows for real time integration, relational learning, and embodied transformation.
Dr. Nicole is deeply committed to making this work accessible and to supporting the liberation of our community. Thirty percent of her practice is reserved for sliding scale rates through the Community Care Fund, which operates as a form of community support and mutual aid. Those paying full rates are not only investing in their own journey, but also ensuring that others with fewer financial resources can step into this work. In this way, individual healing and collective liberation are not separate, but braided together, each sustaining and strengthening the other.
Chicago Immersion
Alumni who complete both the Pleasure Liberation: Sexuality and Pleasure Liberation: Relationships groups are invited to apply for a weekend immersion in Chicago: a sacred integration experience that includes a private tour of a local dungeon, a guided educational kink training, and a tantric embodiment ritual. Designed as a culmination of both group journeys, this immersive experience offers a powerful space to celebrate your transformation, deepen your erotic wisdom, and step more fully into your liberated self.
Ready to Begin?
You don’t have to keep navigating non-monogamy, desire, or expansive love alone. You deserve support that honors your complexity, celebrates your pleasure, and helps you create relationships that truly nourish you.
Pleasure Liberation: Relationships is a space to reclaim the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, soften into your needs, and build relationship structures that feel secure, liberatory, and alive. Through education, embodiment, and community, you’ll step into new ways of loving with more clarity, confidence, and connection than ever before.
If you’re craving support in navigating jealousy, redefining commitment, expanding into erotic truth, and building pleasurable relationships in alignment with your values, this is the space for you.
Only 6 participants will be chosen from the waitlist to join this intimate circle
The waitlist is open for those ready to claim their place in a circle devoted to dissolving old narratives and awakening to relationships rooted in pleasure, authenticity, and interconnectedness.