Relationship Anarchy - Solo-Polyamory - Polyamory - Open - Swinging - Monogamish
An Invitation to Transform
Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy is a 16-week small group (maximum 10 participants) educational program for those exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, and other expansive forms of love and longing to live those truths with confidence, care, and embodiment.
Together, we’ll explore how to communicate with clarity, create liberatory agreements, embody secure connection, and build relationships that reflect your deepest values. Through guided education, embodied practice, and group dialogue, you’ll be supported in crafting relationships rooted in consent, pleasure, and mutual empowerment.
This is an invitation to create your own liberated way of relating, one that honors your fullest self and opens the door to greater intimacy, fulfillment, and possibility. Receive the education, community, and support you need to build relationships that are secure, liberatory, and uniquely your own.
Over 16 weeks, you will:
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Turn confusion into clarity by unlearning the relational scripts that never fit you and replacing them with values-driven, liberatory frameworks for love and connection.
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Transform jealousy and fear into self-understanding, emotional fluency, and the ability to hold both vulnerability and compersion with compassion.
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Reconnect with your erotic self after years of disconnection, performance, or pressure, building a relationship with your desire that feels grounded, joyful, and embodied.
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Step into your boundaries and needs without guilt, shame, or people-pleasing, learning how to say no with love and yes with your whole body.
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Practice secure, expansive love by tending to your nervous system, learning the art of rupture and repair, and cultivating relationships where freedom and care coexist.
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Craft your own relationship ecosystem, whether you’re solo, partnered, polyamorous, or undefined, through relational mapping, imagination, and collaborative design.
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Expand at your own pace in a high-support space where your pleasure, power, and process are honored. This isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about returning to yourself.
This group changed how I love. I came in overwhelmed by jealousy and confusion, and left with so much clarity, confidence, and self-trust. Dr. Nicole’s guidance is profound and gentle. For the first time, I feel like I’m building relationships that are actually mine. Deeply grateful.
Quinn M.
I didn’t realize how disconnected I was from my own pleasure until this group helped me return to it. Every session gave me tools, insight, and community. I’ve learned how to ask for what I want without shame and that has transformed everything. It was truly life-giving.
Ellis V.
This was more than a course, it was a complete shift in how I relate. I no longer feel stuck in old patterns. With Dr. Nicole’s support and the magic of this group, I’ve started living my relationships with intention, joy, pleasure, and freedom. I can't thank her and the group enough.
Marin S.
This Group is for you if
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You’re exploring non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, or other expansive ways of loving and want to feel more grounded, confident, and connected in your path.
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You long to relate from a place of desire rather than obligation, and want to craft relationships that reflect your evolving values, not societal scripts.
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You’ve struggled with jealousy, insecurity, or fear of abandonment, and want to build more emotional resilience, clarity, and care in your connections.
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You’re tired of people-pleasing, over-functioning, or collapsing yourself in relationship and ready to center your needs, boundaries, and truth without shame.
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You want to feel more alive in your body and your sex life, reconnecting with pleasure, play, and erotic possibility.
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You’re craving a small, supportive community of like-minded people who are walking the path of expansive love and who will celebrate your growth, witness your breakthroughs, and remind you that you’re not alone.
What's Included
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A structured yet fluid space for guided teaching, group discussion, embodiment practices, and integration with Dr. Nicole. Each session is intentionally crafted to balance content and connection, giving you both tools and space to process in community.
16 Weekly 2-Hour Group Sessions
You’ll receive a neuroscience-backed curriculum paired with weekly journal prompts to deepen your learning between sessions, all designed to expand your erotic awareness and foster lasting integration.
A Curriculum Rooted in Neuroscience
Receive two private sessions with Dr. Nicole, one at the start of the program to set your intentions and personalize your relational growth, and one at the end to integrate your breakthroughs and map your next steps. These one-on-one sessions ensure your journey is deeply tailored to you.
Individual Sessions with Dr. Nicole
This group is intentionally small and intimate so that you can be seen, heard, and supported every step of the way. You’re not just one of many, you’re part of a transformative ecosystem.
A Support Container (10 participants max)
Learn tools for nervous system regulation, boundary-setting, consent, conflict repair, and more, so that you can embody your values, even in moments of intensity or vulnerability.
Somatic + Relational Practices
Join a shared online community space where participants can connect, ask questions, and share reflections throughout the program, fostering ongoing support, collective learning, and meaningful connection beyond our live sessions.
Peer Support and Community
Timing and Process
Application Window:
To join the Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy program, begin by scheduling a free discovery call with Dr. Nicole. This one-on-one conversation is an opportunity to connect more deeply, explore your desires for this journey, and ask any questions you may have about the group experience. During the call, Dr. Nicole will take time to understand your unique intentions, goals, and the kind of support you’re seeking, ensuring that this space feels like an aligned, nourishing fit for your growth and liberation.
Reserve Your Discovery Call Now to See if You are a Good Fit:
Reserve My Free Discovery Call
Only 10 participants per cohort each year will be chosen to join this intimate circle.
Session Dates:
Every Friday, 11-1pm CDT
(starting August 28th, 2026 through December 11th, 2026):
This consistent weekly rhythm is part of what allows trust, depth, and real relational work to unfold.
Session Format:
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Two private sessions with Dr. Nicole, one at the start to set your intentions and one at the end to integrate your growth
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Dedicated individual sessions to explore personal patterns, tender edges, and specific relational or erotic themes that may not feel right to process in group, allowing for deeper personalization, focused support, and targeted integration of what is unfolding for you in the container.
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Weekly 2-hour live group sessions on Zoom
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2 hours of live, guided facilitation with Dr. Nicole, where we explore the psychology of desire, arousal, shame, attachment, boundaries, nervous system regulation, and erotic self trust, while actively practicing new ways of relating to your body and your pleasure in real time.
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Guided education, somatic + relational practices, group dialogue, and integration support
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Each session blends research based frameworks from sex therapy, attachment theory, trauma informed somatic work, and relational psychology with grounded practices that help you actually integrate what you are learning into your nervous system and daily life.
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Community support and shared reflection
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In addition to large group learning, you will have access to an online community space to ask questions, share reflections, and connect with others for ongoing support and integration between sessions.
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Group Size + Demographics:
This is a high-support space capped at 10 participants to ensure intimacy, safety, and personalized support with Dr. Nicole.
This program is designed for individuals who are actively practicing or intentionally exploring non-monogamy. This shared commitment creates a space where participants can engage in nuanced, real-time conversations about their lived experiences, challenges, and growth within expansive relationship structures.
Participants are predominantly LGBTQIA+, queer, and/or deeply aligned with non-traditional relationship frameworks, creating a community rooted in openness, self-inquiry, and relational experimentation.
Group members range in age from 18 through later adulthood, with some participants in their late 50s and 60s, offering a rich intergenerational perspective. The groups include a wide range of racial identities and cultural backgrounds, with participants joining from across different regions and countries.
Discovery Call:
Begin with a free discovery call to ask your questions, share what you are navigating, and explore whether working together feels aligned. This conversation is a space for connection and clarity, where you can get a felt sense of the work and Dr. Nicole can offer professional guidance and a recommendation about what kind of support may best serve you, whether that is group work, individual sessions, or another supportive pathway.
16-Week Curriculum
Part I: Building the Skills for Pleasurable Non-Monogamy
Weeks 1–8 | Foundations & Relational Practice
(August 28th - October 16th)
Non-monogamy can offer enormous freedom and still bring up jealousy, insecurity, comparison, people-pleasing, uncertainty, and old relational patterns you thought you had moved beyond. In our first eight weeks, we slow these experiences down and build the skills to navigate them differently. You’ll examine the relational scripts you inherited, understand what happens in your brain and body when relationships feel threatening or expansive, and practice creating more security, autonomy, pleasure, and choice in how you relate.
Part II: Understanding Your Relational Patterns
Weeks 9-12 | Your Past, Present, and Future of Non-Monogamy
(October 23rd - November 20th)
Knowing the concepts is different from recognizing them while they are unfolding in your own life. This part of the program turns the lens toward you. Through Past, Present & Future presentations, facilitated reflection, and collective witnessing, you’ll trace the experiences and systems that shaped how you relate, identify the patterns you are living today, and clarify the relationships and relational life you want to create. You’ll also learn through the complexity of other people's stories, expanding what you can imagine beyond the relational possibilities you have personally experienced.
Part III: Living Into Relational Pleasure
Weeks 13-16 | Integration and Ongoing Practice
(November 27th - December 11th)
The final weeks focus on bringing everything you’ve learned into your relationships and everyday life. We’ll reflect on what has changed over the course of the program, where you still want to grow, and the practices that will help you continue building relationships with more pleasure, security, autonomy, and connection. We’ll also make space to celebrate the relationships and community you’ve built together and prepare for the transition out of the cohort.
Investment:
The investment for the full 16-week Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy experience is $5,500, Installment plans are available.
This investment includes the complete 16-week journey: 32 hours of live group work, two private sessions with Dr. Nicole, weekly at-home prompts and practices, access to the online portal and community space, and ongoing support throughout the program.
A limited number of sliding-scale spaces are available for those with financial need who would otherwise be unable to participate in the Pleasure Liberation: Sexuality and Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy program through the Community Care Fund. If you need financial support to participate, ask Dr. Nicole about the Community Care Fund during your free Discovery Call
Next Steps
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Begin the process by reserving a 25-minute Discovery Call with Dr. Nicole to share your goals, ask questions, and explore whether working together may be the right fit.
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Complete the Pleasure Liberation Assessment
After booking, you’ll receive the Pleasure Liberation Assessment by email to complete before your call. Your responses help Dr. Nicole understand your needs, desires, and what you’re hoping to explore together.
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Meet with Dr. Nicole
Meet with Dr. Nicole to explore personalized insights from your assessment, discuss your goals, and determine which way of working together would best support what you’re seeking.
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Begin Working Together
If it feels like a strong mutual fit, you’ll receive everything you need to get started. Your first session will explore your history, goals, and experiences to create a strong foundation for the work ahead.
FAQs
This is not a self-paced course you purchase and work through alone. Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy is a live, intimate, 16-week experiential container with Dr. Nicole and a cohort of just 10 participants.
The work brings research and theory into direct conversation with your relationships, your body, your nervous system, and the patterns unfolding in your life. Through weekly group sessions, private sessions, guided practices, reflection, and ongoing community support, you have time to explore what you are learning, practice new ways of relating, and receive support as those changes begin to take shape in your life.
Over 16 weeks, we build a shared space where intellectual insight can become embodied practice. You are invited to develop greater capacity for authenticity, pleasure, self-trust, communication, and relational freedom.
Plan for the two-hour live session each week, along with additional time for reflection and weekly journaling practices.
You will have space between sessions to experiment with what you are learning in your relationships, notice what emerges, and bring those experiences back into our work together.
The more space you create for curiosity, practice, and reflection throughout the 16 weeks, the more opportunities you will have to integrate the work into your everyday life.
That’s okay. Things happen. Just let Dr. Nicole know if you are unable to attend.
To protect the privacy and intimacy of the group, live sessions are not recorded. The curriculum and educational materials from each week will be available through the online portal, so you can stay connected to the material and continue your practices between sessions.
Consistent participation is encouraged because so much of the experience comes from the relationships, conversations, and practices we build together over the 16 weeks.
Absolutely. Partners are welcome to join the same cohort, and many partners find it incredibly valuable to move through the experience together.
Participating alongside a partner gives you a shared language for talking about desire, boundaries, jealousy, attachment, communication, and the relationships you are creating. You also get to bring what you are learning directly into your relationship throughout the 16 weeks, practice together between sessions, and continue the conversations long after the program ends.
Each partner enrolls as an individual participant, allowing each of you to have your own experience within the larger shared journey.
Absolutely. Installment plans are available to make the investment more manageable, We can discuss a payment structure during your Discovery Call and find an option that works for you.
A limited number of reduced-rate spaces are also available through the Community Care Fund for participants who would otherwise be unable to join. Eligibility for the Community Care Fund can be discussed during your Discovery Call.
Ready to Begin?
You don’t have to keep navigating non-monogamy, desire, or expansive love alone. You deserve support that honors your complexity, celebrates your pleasure, and helps you create relationships that truly nourish you.
Pleasure Liberation: Non-Monogamy is a space to reclaim the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, soften into your needs, and build relationship structures that feel secure, liberatory, and alive. Through education, embodiment, and community, you’ll step into new ways of loving with more clarity, confidence, and connection than ever before.
If you’re craving support in navigating jealousy, redefining commitment, expanding into erotic truth, and building pleasurable relationships in alignment with your values, this is the space for you.
This space is open for those ready to claim their place in a circle devoted to dissolving old narratives and awakening to relationships rooted in pleasure, authenticity, and interconnectedness.