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261. The Practice of Relationship Anarchy with Ewan McConchie
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Yuin join us for a conversation all about the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about non-attachment with jealousy. Embracing the obstacle and the journey of connecting with your authentic self. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasur
7 days ago


260. The Collective Power of Queer, BDSM, and Non-Monogamous Communities with Liam Wignall
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Liam join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about an evolutionary perspective on non-monogamy. What happens when you see your therapist at a dungeon and the ethics of privacy versus transparency in non-monogamy? Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Ana
7 days ago


258. Your Empowered Pleasure-Based Sexuality Narrative with Jane Downey
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jane join us for a conversation all about liberating our communities and stepping into empowered pleasure. Together we talk about the bravery to be curious, integrating the wisdom of a dominatrix and doing the Lord's work of pleasure, liberation. Hello, dear listener. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so deli
Apr 2


257. The Voice of a Liberated Orgasm with Dr. Jen
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Jen join us for a conversation about building the courage and skills needed to talk about sexual pleasure. Together we talk about expanding our comfort zone. Habituation in long-term relationships and cross-cultural sex education. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to
Mar 2


256. Radical Relating with Mel Cassidy
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Mel join us for a conversation about building anarcho queer communities. Together we talk about. Having an orgy with the universe, joy as a form of resistance and releasing demons, one orgasm at a time. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activis
Mar 1


255. Embracing Authentic Queer Sexual Pleasure with Melissa Fabello, Ph.D
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Melissa join us for our conversation about aligning your sex life and your politics. Together we talk about decentering men being witnessed in peak orgasm and burning down the word foreplay. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from aro
Feb 28


254. Queer Joy as Collective Resistance with Dr. JJ Wright
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have JJ join us for a conversation about building joyful queer sexual cultures. Together we talk about. Eroticism Beyond sexuality, embracing the feels and pleasure, liberation, consciousness raising. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists fro
Jan 28


253. Chill Polyamory and Intentional Community Building with Genevieve
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole Try, but she's screaming inside. Try. On today's episode, we have Genevieve join us for a conversation about transformational interdependence. Together we talk about taking a break from edging your reality, learning how to swim in non-monogamy, and the nuance of hierarchy. Hello, dear listener, and. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so d
Jan 28


252. Exploring Your Sexual Pleasure with Dr. Frankie
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Frankie join us for a conversation all about releasing shame and embodying your erotic power. Together we talk about stretching into your zone of the erotic learning to tap back into play and the importance of lube. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you
Jan 27


251. The Heroic Dose of Polyamory and Sexual Communication with Evita Lavitaloca Sawyers
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Evita join us for a conversation about becoming turned on by more things. Together. We talk about. Sex That feels good before, during, and after an ethic of compersion and navigating NRE. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from around
Jan 26


250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. In today's episode we have Dr. Joli join us for our conversation. All about rewriting the narratives of sexual pleasure. Together we talk about the grief of an amazing dick, how mothers like good sex too, and the evolution of sex in long-term relationships. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have
Dec 31


249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Stephen join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about finding security in community, slowing down intimacy and anarchist calisthenics. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you. Pleasure activists from around the world
Dec 30, 2025


248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode. We have Dr. Liz join us for a conversation about learning to embrace your full erotic play. So together we talk about the orgies at Ren fairs, developing healthy interdependence and betrayal versus cheating and non-monogamy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you p
Dec 16, 2025


247: The Skills of Rupture and Repair with Lux Gypsum
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Lux join us for a conversation all about somatics and conflict transformation work. Together we talk about updating attachment theory, expanding our narratives of connection. And regulating our nervous systems in community. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all o
Dec 16, 2025


246: Becoming an Embodied and Empowered Sex Witch with Ashley Manta
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ashley Manta join us for a conversation all about leading with pleasure. Together we talk about orgasming with Lilith, integrating our erotic parts and riding the waves of your pleasure, evolution. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists fr
Dec 2, 2025


245: Relationship Anarchist: Jezebel
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jezebel join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to reconfigure relationships and surrendering to the ego death of relationship anarchy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pl
Dec 1, 2025


243. Owning Your Consent and Sexual Agency with Kitty Stryker
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kitty join us for a conversation all about dismantling rape culture. Together we talk about the sexiness of nuance, getting an A plus in sex, and the need for transformative justice. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from around the
Nov 29, 2025


242. Pleasure is the Power: A Female Led Revolution with Dr. Tammy Nelson
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole, but she's screaming inside at me. Try. On today's episode, we have Dr. Tammy Nielsen. Join us for a conversation about the power of liberating our collective pleasure. Together we talk about the vast continuum from monogamy to non-monogamy. Releasing the restrictions of shame and some extremely necessary updates to our sexuality research.
Nov 6, 2025


241. Relationship Anarchist: Kara
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kara join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the rebellion of queer spaces, the politics of parenting, and deconstructing the myth of romance. Hello, dear listener, and. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from aro
Nov 4, 2025


240. Stepping into Your Sensual Empowerment with Ally Iseman
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ally join us for a conversation about following your curiosity all the way home to your pleasure. Together we talk about the politics of a full belly laugh, sexual ha situation in long-term relationships, and making up for the years of women's lost orgasms. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy
Nov 3, 2025


239. Decolonizing and Unsettling Sexuality with Dr. Roger Khun
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Roger Kon. Join us for a conversation about embracing the innate wisdom of the body. Together we talk about exploring the edges of your conditioning, finding empowerment in our choice and the lifelong process of unlearning. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have al
Oct 31, 2025


238. Dismantling Purity Culture: Abstinence, Drug Use, and Harm Reduction with Sheila Vakharia
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Shelia join us for a conversation about our right to bodily autonomy. Together we talk about meeting people where they are at consciousness, raising around set and setting, and moving beyond abstinence only paradigms. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you.
Oct 29, 2025


237. Relationship Anarchist: Momo
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Momo join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. So together we talk about creating mutually pleasurable relationships, getting off the intimacy escalator, and stepping into an abundance of love. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pl
Oct 23, 2025


236. Relaxing into an Abundance Mindset with Sex and Relationships with Roy Graff
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Roy Graff join us for a conversation all about finding pleasure and expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of yo
Oct 22, 2025
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