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288. Sensual Massage and Healing Sexual Trauma - Liam
0:27 On today's episode, we have Liam join us for a conversation all about slowing down to receive. Together we talk about the Eroticism of attunement, dismantling pleasure phobia, and building more expansive communities of care. 0:46 Hello dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted that you are here and tuning in with the pleasure activist from around the world. My name is Doctor Nicole, I'm a queer, non monogamous psychotherapist and a provider of ps
Sep 17


287. Learning the Embodied Language of Pleasure – Brandon Hunter-Haydon
Dr. Nicole (00:00) Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Brandon join us for a conversation about building the skills to confidently communicate our desires. Together we talk about queering surrogate partner therapy, when your sexual boundaries bring you into closer connection, and expanding our window of capacity for pleasure. Hello, dear listener and Welcome back to Modern
Sep 16


286. Getting Off the Sexuality Escalator - Dr. Nazian
0:27 On today's episode, we have Doctor Nausean join us for a conversation about rewriting your sexual scripts. Together we talk about. Giggling during sex, embracing our kinky parts and fine tuning your sexual palette. 0:45 Hello dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted that you were here to learn more about your pleasure and our collective pleasure liberation. My name is Doctor Nicole, I'm a sex and relationship psychotherapist providing psychedeli
Sep 1


285. Another Slutty World is Possible - Mike Reisner
0:27 On today's episode we have my join us for a conversation about the cultural paradigm shift of Ethical Slut Hood. Together we talk about the transformative joy of snuggle piles, getting off the sex escalator, and the non monogamous mistakes we've made along the way. 0:46 Hello dear listener and welcome back to modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted that you are here learning about your pleasure and tuning in with the pleasure activists from around the world. My name is Doctor N
Aug 30


284. Relationship Design and Creative Non-Monogamy - Laura Ramadei
0:27 On today's episode we have Laura join us for a conversation about creatively designing authentic relationship structures together. We talk about needing flexibility in relationships when conversion is not easily accessible and community building across varying levels of experience and non monogamy. 0:50 Hello dear listener and welcome back to modern anarchy. I'm so delighted that you are here, so delighted that you're learning more about your relationships. A pleasure an
Aug 29


283. The Liberation of our Ethical Sluthood - Dr. Manijeh Badiee
On today's episode, we have Doctor Baddie join us for a conversation about the lifelong practice of erotic liberation. Together we talk about the joy of platonic life partners, the unconscious impact of labels, and expanding our capacity for conflict resolution. 0:48 Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted that you are here tuning in for another episode each Wednesday. I'm Doctor Nicole, I'm a sex and relationship psychotherapist providing p
Aug 28


282. Sex Work, Relationship Anarchy, and Professional Domination - Miss Adah Von
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. Leave her hanging all strung up. I tried to keep her quiet, but she's screaming inside of me. On today's episode, we have Miss Ada Vaughn. Join us for a conversation about expanding our communities of care. Together we talk about underground foot parties, getting beyond prescriptive labels, and being a fan of gossip. Hello, dear listener, and
Aug 27


281. Finding Kinky, Non-Monogamous Community – Ryan Ash
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ryan join us for a conversation about the messy and oh-so-human journey of expansive relating. Together, we talk about the resilience that comes with healing from trauma, knitting in the dungeon, and the power of vulnerability. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted that you are
Aug 15


280. The Ego Dissolution of Sex and Pleasure - Jordan Dobrowski
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jordan. Join us for our conversation about learning to release control. Together we talk about slowing down to savor, continued care, and celebrating your growth story. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have you here, and that you are joining all of the pleasure activists
Aug 15


279. Loving People by Not Controlling Them - Laura Mae Northrup
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Laura. Join us for a conversation all about the continued practice of being your aliveness. Together we talk about orgasms as prayer, playing on psychedelics, and the liberatory practice of learning to apologize. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted that you are joining pleasur
Aug 15


278. The Pleasurable Polyamory Paradigm Shift – Ken Hamilton
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ken. Join us for a conversation all about the mistakes that were made along the way. Together we talk about releasing shame through conversation, coming out as polyamorous to your kids, and what makes the difficulty of non-monogamy worthwhile. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighte
Aug 15


277. Do Educated Women Choose Polyamory? - Dr. Elisabeth Sheff
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Eli. Join us for our conversation about the contemporary research on non-monogamy. Together we talk about infidelity stats, when the threesome doesn't live up to reality, and creatively designing your non-monogamy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so excited that you are here to lear
Aug 15


276. Sexual Pleasure in a F**ked up World – Jason Best
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jason. Join us for a conversation about tapping into pleasure during these complex times. Together we talk about prioritizing time for sexual pleasure as new parents, when your therapist is at the sex party, and showing up for our local communities. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so de
Jul 18


275. Psychedelic Sexuality, Spirituality, and Pleasure Sovereignty – Kayla Fenton
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kayla. Join us for our conversation all about reclaiming sovereignty Together we talk about integrity within power dynamics, reconnecting with your intuition, and the transformation of being witnessed in community. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted that you are here, that yo
Jul 18


274. Spunky, Kinky Kitten to Witchy, Erotic Crone – Elmo Painter
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. Try to leave her hiding all strung up. I tried to keep her quiet, but she's screaming inside of me. I tried- On today's episode, we have Elmo Painter. Join us for our conversation about the evolution of the erotic. Together we talk about being in caterpillar soup, sex magic rituals, and embracing the question marks. Hello, dear listener, and w
Jul 8


273. Erotic Authenticity: A Lesbian in a Mixed, Open Relationship – Cora Pearl
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Cora. Join us for a conversation exploring erotic authenticity. Together we talk about coming out later in life, finding belonging within ourselves, and doing the scary thing anyways because discomfort is part of the process. Oh. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted to have all
Jul 8


272. Queering EMDR and Psychedelics – Cash Waller
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Cash. Join us for a conversation about reprocessing trauma and savoring your pleasure. Together we talk about querying the field of psychology, the power of dance, and being devoted to nature. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you tuning in for another episode
Jul 8


271. Sexpert Swinger Cruises: F**king up more than you f**k - Amber Mallery
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Amber. Join us for a conversation all about being a messy, real human on their pleasure journey. Together we talk about pleasure mapping, vulnerably cracking your heart open, and the breath of a good orgasm. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. My heart is so filled with joy that you are here ag
Jul 8


270. The Wild Ride of Following Your Pleasure - Karen Yates
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Karen join us for a conversation about healing in relationships. Together we talk about actually feeling your trauma, ouch, that one hurts sometimes, the language of pleasure, and becoming present with yourself. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. My heart is so delighted and filled with gratit
Jul 8


269. F**king Your Friends is Mutual - Dominatrix Empress Wu
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. Leave her hanging all strung up. On today's episode, we have Empress Wu join us for our conversation exploring the psychological edge of power exchange. Together we talk about finding other cuckoo bitches, nutting off mic, and the politics of the taboo. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted that you are her
Jun 6


268. Solo-Pleasure with the Lights Turned On - August McLaughin
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have August. Join us for a conversation about healing through self-pleasure. Together we talk about girl boners, fantasy brunches, and being turned on by your creativity. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. Welcome, welcome, welcome. I am so delighted that you are here for another episode each Wedne
Jun 6


267. Love in a F**ked Up World - Dean Spade
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dean Spade join us for a conversation about radical community building. Together we talk about dismantling the romance myth, NRE safety planning, and curiosity over campaigning. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so delighted to have all of you tuning in to another episode each Wednesday.
Jun 5


266. Cry Hard. Cum Hard: the connection between pleasure and grief with Jess DeVries
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jess. Join us for a conversation about normalizing the full range of the human existence. Together we talk about embracing the surrender of orgasm, learning to trust your intuition, and feeling the sounds of the body. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. Welcome to another episode. I'm so deligh
May 16


264. Burnt-Out Libido: When You Need a Polycule to Afford NYC with Justine Ang Fonte
[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Justine join us for a conversation about the adult word pleasure. Together we talk about how sex education differs across the states, when receiving pleasure is difficult, and moving through a miscarriage. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so happy that you are here. So happy that you're
May 16
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