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250. Jealousy Orgasms and Sexual Individuation with Dr. Joli Hamilton

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. In today's episode we have Dr. Joli join us for our conversation. All about rewriting the narratives of sexual pleasure. Together we talk about the grief of an amazing dick, how mothers like good sex too, and the evolution of sex in long-term relationships. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have

Dec 31

249. Relationship Anarchist: Stephen Symington

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Stephen join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about finding security in community, slowing down intimacy and anarchist calisthenics. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you. Pleasure activists from around the world

Dec 30, 2025

248: Liberating your Sexual and Relational Play with Dr. Liz Powell

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode. We have Dr. Liz join us for a conversation about learning to embrace your full erotic play. So together we talk about the orgies at Ren fairs, developing healthy interdependence and betrayal versus cheating and non-monogamy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you p

Dec 16, 2025

247: The Skills of Rupture and Repair with Lux Gypsum

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Lux join us for a conversation all about somatics and conflict transformation work. Together we talk about updating attachment theory, expanding our narratives of connection. And regulating our nervous systems in community. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all o

Dec 16, 2025

246: Becoming an Embodied and Empowered Sex Witch with Ashley Manta

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ashley Manta join us for a conversation all about leading with pleasure. Together we talk about orgasming with Lilith, integrating our erotic parts and riding the waves of your pleasure, evolution. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists fr

Dec 2, 2025

245: Relationship Anarchist: Jezebel

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jezebel join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to reconfigure relationships and surrendering to the ego death of relationship anarchy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pl

Dec 1, 2025

243. Owning Your Consent and Sexual Agency with Kitty Stryker

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kitty join us for a conversation all about dismantling rape culture. Together we talk about the sexiness of nuance, getting an A plus in sex, and the need for transformative justice. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from around the

Nov 29, 2025

242. Pleasure is the Power: A Female Led Revolution with Dr. Tammy Nelson

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole, but she's screaming inside at me. Try. On today's episode, we have Dr. Tammy Nielsen. Join us for a conversation about the power of liberating our collective pleasure. Together we talk about the vast continuum from monogamy to non-monogamy. Releasing the restrictions of shame and some extremely necessary updates to our sexuality research.

Nov 6, 2025

241. Relationship Anarchist: Kara

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kara join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the rebellion of queer spaces, the politics of parenting, and deconstructing the myth of romance. Hello, dear listener, and. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from aro

Nov 4, 2025

240. Stepping into Your Sensual Empowerment with Ally Iseman

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ally join us for a conversation about following your curiosity all the way home to your pleasure. Together we talk about the politics of a full belly laugh, sexual ha situation in long-term relationships, and making up for the years of women's lost orgasms. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy

Nov 3, 2025

239. Decolonizing and Unsettling Sexuality with Dr. Roger Khun

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Roger Kon. Join us for a conversation about embracing the innate wisdom of the body. Together we talk about exploring the edges of your conditioning, finding empowerment in our choice and the lifelong process of unlearning. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have al

Oct 30, 2025

238. Dismantling Purity Culture: Abstinence, Drug Use, and Harm Reduction with Sheila Vakharia

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Shelia join us for a conversation about our right to bodily autonomy. Together we talk about meeting people where they are at consciousness, raising around set and setting, and moving beyond abstinence only paradigms. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you.

Oct 28, 2025

237. Relationship Anarchist: Momo

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Momo join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. So together we talk about creating mutually pleasurable relationships, getting off the intimacy escalator, and stepping into an abundance of love. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pl

Oct 22, 2025

236. Relaxing into an Abundance Mindset with Sex and Relationships with Roy Graff

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Roy Graff join us for a conversation all about finding pleasure and expansive relating. Together we talk about the generations of lost orgasms, our unconscious cultural conditioning, and stepping into more touch support. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of yo

Oct 22, 2025

235. Learning the Language of the Creative, Erotic Intimacy with Darshana Avila

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Darshana join us for a conversation all about erotic exploration. Together we talk about. The connection between your eroticism and your vitality becoming a professional pussy stroker and learning to receive. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure a

Sep 30, 2025