[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jess. Join us for a conversation about normalizing the full range of the human existence. Together we talk about embracing the surrender of orgasm, learning to trust your intuition, and feeling the sounds of the body. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. Welcome to another episode. I'm so deligh

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Justine join us for a conversation about the adult word pleasure. Together we talk about how sex education differs across the states, when receiving pleasure is difficult, and moving through a miscarriage. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so happy that you are here. So happy that you're

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Aaron join us for a conversation about the sexual tension between safety and risk. Together we talk about following your erotic compass, the existential obstacle of isolation, and coming to our life intentions. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I'm so happy that you are here, uh, tuning in to

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Gili join us for a conversation all about the language of desire. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to meet yourself and embracing the gray space. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted that you are here. So delighted that you are ready to learn and go deepe

[00:05:17] Michelle: I am Michelle Hayes I'm a Portlander, born and raised. I'm a polyamory content creator. Yeah. I don't know. I'm five years in and I don't know what to call it. [00:05:28] Dr. Nicole: It's probably changed over the five years, right? Mm-hmm. [00:05:31] Michelle: Mm-hmm. [00:05:32] Dr. Nicole: Mm-hmm. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Yeah. [00:05:33] Michelle: Yeah. [00:05:34] Dr. Nicole: Well, it's such a joy to have you on the podcast again. [00:05:37] Michelle: Yes. Thank

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Yuin join us for a conversation all about the practice of relationship anarchy. Together we talk about non-attachment with jealousy. Embracing the obstacle and the journey of connecting with your authentic self. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasur

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Liam join us for a conversation about the transformative power of community. Together we talk about an evolutionary perspective on non-monogamy. What happens when you see your therapist at a dungeon and the ethics of privacy versus transparency in non-monogamy? Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Ana

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we are celebrating year five of the podcast, y'all. Oh my goodness. It feels surreal, like straight up. Who was the girl who started this podcast five years ago? Wild. Wild. Ah, if you listen to my episodes from back then. Wow. Um, dear listener, it's like. Reading your old journals, you're just kinda like, who is this?

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jane join us for a conversation all about liberating our communities and stepping into empowered pleasure. Together we talk about the bravery to be curious, integrating the wisdom of a dominatrix and doing the Lord's work of pleasure, liberation. Hello, dear listener. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so deli

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Jen join us for a conversation about building the courage and skills needed to talk about sexual pleasure. Together we talk about expanding our comfort zone. Habituation in long-term relationships and cross-cultural sex education. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Mel join us for a conversation about building anarcho queer communities. Together we talk about. Having an orgy with the universe, joy as a form of resistance and releasing demons, one orgasm at a time. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activis

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Melissa join us for our conversation about aligning your sex life and your politics. Together we talk about decentering men being witnessed in peak orgasm and burning down the word foreplay. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from aro

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have JJ join us for a conversation about building joyful queer sexual cultures. Together we talk about. Eroticism Beyond sexuality, embracing the feels and pleasure, liberation, consciousness raising. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists fro

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole Try, but she's screaming inside. Try. On today's episode, we have Genevieve join us for a conversation about transformational interdependence. Together we talk about taking a break from edging your reality, learning how to swim in non-monogamy, and the nuance of hierarchy. Hello, dear listener, and. Welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so d

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Dr. Frankie join us for a conversation all about releasing shame and embodying your erotic power. Together we talk about stretching into your zone of the erotic learning to tap back into play and the importance of lube. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Evita join us for a conversation about becoming turned on by more things. Together. We talk about. Sex That feels good before, during, and after an ethic of compersion and navigating NRE. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from around

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. In today's episode we have Dr. Joli join us for our conversation. All about rewriting the narratives of sexual pleasure. Together we talk about the grief of an amazing dick, how mothers like good sex too, and the evolution of sex in long-term relationships. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Stephen join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about finding security in community, slowing down intimacy and anarchist calisthenics. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you. Pleasure activists from around the world

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode. We have Dr. Liz join us for a conversation about learning to embrace your full erotic play. So together we talk about the orgies at Ren fairs, developing healthy interdependence and betrayal versus cheating and non-monogamy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you p

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Lux join us for a conversation all about somatics and conflict transformation work. Together we talk about updating attachment theory, expanding our narratives of connection. And regulating our nervous systems in community. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all o

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Ashley Manta join us for a conversation all about leading with pleasure. Together we talk about orgasming with Lilith, integrating our erotic parts and riding the waves of your pleasure, evolution. Hello, dear listener and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists fr

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Jezebel join us for another relationship anarchy research conversation. Together we talk about the power of curiosity, learning to reconfigure relationships and surrendering to the ego death of relationship anarchy. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pl

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole. On today's episode, we have Kitty join us for a conversation all about dismantling rape culture. Together we talk about the sexiness of nuance, getting an A plus in sex, and the need for transformative justice. Hello, dear listener, and welcome back to Modern Anarchy. I am so delighted to have all of you pleasure activists from around the

[00:00:00] Dr. Nicole: Welcome to Modern Anarchy, the podcast, exploring sex, relationships, and liberation. I'm your host, Dr. Nicole, but she's screaming inside at me. Try. On today's episode, we have Dr. Tammy Nielsen. Join us for a conversation about the power of liberating our collective pleasure. Together we talk about the vast continuum from monogamy to non-monogamy. Releasing the restrictions of shame and some extremely necessary updates to our sexuality research.