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THE PLEASURE PRACTICE

Creating More Pleasure

In Our  Sex Lives and Relationships

The erotic sex and fulfilling relational life you crave is possible!

 

Welcome to The Pleasure Practice, an invitation for those looking to challenge the status quo of relating and embody deeper ecstasy. 

HOW ARE YOU FEELING?

  • If you feel uncomfortable talking about sex and are going through the motions with lackluster and obligatory sex
    Coaching can support you in embracing your sexual power and right to pleasure. You can enjoy sex that is creative, playful, and deeply satisfying.
  • If you feel numb, turned-off, and distracted during sex or tolerating uncomfortable and painful sex
    Coaching can support you in building deeper body awareness, understanding of erogenous zones, exploration of sexual fantasy, and mindfulness techniques to feel more pleasure.
  • If you feel stuck in societal scripts, unrealistic expectations, and moral restrictions around sexuality
    Coaching can support you in developing a creative and shame-free approach to sexuality. This can range from exploring your own solo sex practice of masturbation, more adventurous sex in partnership, or kinky play with others.
  • If you feel intrigued by kinky and erotic sex but don’t know where to start
    Coaching can support you in discovering your kinky tastes and empowering you to play with these dynamics in your partnerships. Together we can discover if you enjoy playing with power, engaging in group sex, or unleashing your inner exhibitionist. The range of kinky sex is expansive, and coaching can help you clarify the erotic sex you crave.

MISSION

If the status quo of sex and relationships feels confining to you, you are not alone. You deserve to craft a sex life and relationships that you enjoy and that fit your unique needs and dreams. I’m here to support and companion with you in the development of your embodied pleasure.

 

 

 

 

 

 

I would love to support you in the development of your wild heart and the fanning of the flame. If you long to feel a deeper connection to your erotic self, build conscious relationships rather than the status-quo, and live liberation, then let me tell you that you are not alone in these longings and you have found a safe space to be all that you are. I am a Feminist, Queer, Non-Monogamous Sex Educator and Psychotherapist who is passionate about helping individuals create more pleasure in their lives. My doctoral research focused on the pleasure of non-monogamy, relationship anarchy, and kinky play. I am also a Certified Yoga and Mindfulness Instructor and use this background to support you in building deeper embodiment and enhanced intimacy. As a Feminist Theorist, I also examine the intersectional impacts of racism, sexism, ableism, and other forms of oppression on our access to pleasure. I believe creating a pleasurable life requires a multi-disciplinary approach that is as expansive as you are.

 

My intention is to support you in discovering and pursuing the things that bring your soul alive and give you greater zest for life. Whether you are exploring opening up your relationship, navigating jealousy and compersion in open-relating, expanding your sexuality through kink, or connecting deeper with your solo sex practices, I’m here to support you wherever you might be on your journey to a more pleasurable life.

 

If you are resonating with this message and feel the calling to go deeper, fill out the form below and let’s connect to discover if working together would be a good fit for both of us.

 

I’m excited to meet you and get to hear your unique story.

 

Nicole Thompson,

MA, Clinical Psychology

  • If you feel uncomfortable talking about sex and are going through the motions with lackluster and obligatory sex
    Coaching can support you in embracing your sexual power and right to pleasure. You can enjoy sex that is creative, playful, and deeply satisfying.
  • If you feel numb, turned-off, and distracted during sex or tolerating uncomfortable and painful sex
    Coaching can support you in building deeper body awareness, understanding of erogenous zones, exploration of sexual fantasy, and mindfulness techniques to feel more pleasure.
  • If you feel stuck in societal scripts, unrealistic expectations, and moral restrictions around sexuality
    Coaching can support you in developing a creative and shame-free approach to sexuality. This can range from exploring your own solo sex practice of masturbation, more adventurous sex in partnership, or kinky play with others.
  • If you feel intrigued by kinky and erotic sex but don’t know where to start
    Coaching can support you in discovering your kinky tastes and empowering you to play with these dynamics in your partnerships. Together we can discover if you enjoy playing with power, engaging in group sex, or unleashing your inner exhibitionist. The range of kinky sex is expansive, and coaching can help you clarify the erotic sex you crave.
  • If you feel uncomfortable talking about sex and are going through the motions with lackluster and obligatory sex
    Coaching can support you in embracing your sexual power and right to pleasure. You can enjoy sex that is creative, playful, and deeply satisfying.
  • If you feel numb, turned-off, and distracted during sex or tolerating uncomfortable and painful sex
    Coaching can support you in building deeper body awareness, understanding of erogenous zones, exploration of sexual fantasy, and mindfulness techniques to feel more pleasure.
  • If you feel stuck in societal scripts, unrealistic expectations, and moral restrictions around sexuality
    Coaching can support you in developing a creative and shame-free approach to sexuality. This can range from exploring your own solo sex practice of masturbation, more adventurous sex in partnership, or kinky play with others.
  • If you feel intrigued by kinky and erotic sex but don’t know where to start
    Coaching can support you in discovering your kinky tastes and empowering you to play with these dynamics in your partnerships. Together we can discover if you enjoy playing with power, engaging in group sex, or unleashing your inner exhibitionist. The range of kinky sex is expansive, and coaching can help you clarify the erotic sex you crave.
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